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  • Tipping at Expensive Restaurants: What You Should Know

    Dining at a high-end restaurant can be a memorable experience—white tablecloths, sommelier recommendations, and dishes that look like art. But when the bill arrives, even seasoned diners may pause and wonder: How much should I tip?

    While tipping is standard in most U.S. restaurants, the etiquette can feel murky at upscale establishments where the service—and the check—are on another level. Here’s a breakdown of how to approach tipping at expensive restaurants and what to consider before leaving that final amount.

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    The standard tip is 15–20%, but in fine dining, 20% is the expected norm. That might feel like a lot when your meal costs $500, but remember: tipping is based on percentage, not just effort. A $100 tip on a $500 meal may feel steep, but it reflects both the quality of service and the dining experience you chose.

    Good service? 20% Excellent or exceptional service? 22–25% Subpar service? 10–15%, though it’s worth discussing with the manager first

    2. Service Charge ≠ Tip

    Some expensive restaurants include a “service charge” (usually 18–22%) automatically. This may or may not go directly to the waitstaff. Always check the receipt or ask the server if it replaces the tip.

    If service charge is added, no additional tip is required, but some diners still leave a small extra amount for standout service. If gratuity is included, you’ll see language like “gratuity included” or “service included.”

    3. Consider the Whole Staff

    In fine dining, your server isn’t working alone. There’s often a team: food runners, bussers, sommeliers, and more. Tipping generously helps ensure the entire service team is rewarded. Many restaurants use a tip-pooling system, where tips are split among front-of-house staff.

    4. What About Sommeliers and Restroom Attendants?

    Sommeliers: It’s common to tip 5–10% of the wine cost if the sommelier’s service went beyond just handing you a wine list. Restroom attendants: A $1–$2 tip is polite if you use their service.

    5. When Splitting the Bill

    If you’re splitting the bill or using multiple cards, ensure the total tip reflects the full amount of the meal—not just your portion. Don’t accidentally under-tip just because it’s divided.

    6. International Guests, Be Aware

    Travelers from countries where tipping isn’t customary may be surprised by expectations in the U.S. Make it clear: Tipping in high-end U.S. restaurants is not optional unless service was genuinely poor.

    7. Tip in Cash When You Can

    Even if you pay the bill by card, leaving the tip in cash ensures your server receives it immediately and avoids potential credit card processing delays or deductions.

    8. Remember, It’s a Choice—but Also a Statement

    Tipping is voluntary in most states, but withholding a tip at an expensive restaurant makes a clear (and often negative) statement. If you’re dissatisfied with the service, talk to the manager instead of simply leaving a low tip without explanation.

    9. Looking Ahead: Should We Be Rethinking Tipping Altogether?

    As tipping percentages climb and the line between optional and required blurs, more diners—and workers—are questioning the system. Why should customers shoulder the burden of paying workers a living wage, especially in luxury environments where menus cost hundreds of dollars?

    Possible solutions include:

    Service-included pricing, where restaurants raise menu prices to pay staff fair wages and eliminate tipping altogether. Profit-sharing models, where tips are replaced with built-in compensation tied to restaurant success. Stronger wage laws, ensuring front-of-house and back-of-house employees earn reliable, consistent incomes.

    Some upscale restaurants are already embracing these changes. Instead of guessing the “right” tip, diners simply enjoy the experience—knowing the staff is being compensated fairly.

    Until then, tipping remains part of the culture—but it doesn’t have to be the future.

    For more on the movement to end tipping culture and create fairer pay in the service industry, visit EndTippingCulture.org.

  • Tipping Expectations by Industry

    When Is It Required, Encouraged, or Optional?

    Tipping in the U.S. can feel like a social maze. You’re standing at a coffee counter, takeout window, or valet stand, wondering: Am I supposed to tip? How much? Is it rude if I don’t?

    The truth is, tipping expectations vary dramatically by industry—and the consequences for workers can vary just as much. In some cases, skipping a tip means denying someone a livable income. In others, it’s completely optional.

    Let’s break down the industries, the expectations, and how to know if a worker depends on your tip to get paid fairly.

    Full-Service Restaurants

    Tipping: Required in practice

    Typical: 15–20% of the bill

    Why: Servers are often legally paid a subminimum wage, sometimes as low as $2.13/hour. Tips make up the majority of their income.

    Verdict: These workers rely heavily on tips. Not tipping means they may earn below minimum wage.

    Bars and Coffee Shops

    Tipping: Encouraged

    Typical: $1–$2 per drink or 15–20% tab

    Why: Some baristas and bartenders are tipped workers; others are not. It varies by state and employer.

    Verdict: If you’re sitting at the bar or getting personalized service, tipping is often expected. For grab-and-go coffee? It’s optional—but appreciated.

    Takeout and Counter Service

    Tipping: Optional—but increasingly expected

    Typical: $1–$5, or 10% of order

    Why: Workers are usually paid at least minimum wage, not a tipped wage.

    Verdict: Tip if the staff went above and beyond, packed a complex order, or delivered curbside. Otherwise, it’s optional.

    Delivery Services (Food, Groceries, Packages)

    Tipping: Expected

    Typical: $3–$5 base or 15–20%

    Why: Many delivery drivers work for apps that pay poorly and rely on tips to meet earnings.

    Verdict: Tip, especially in bad weather, long distances, or complex deliveries.

    Ride Shares (Uber, Lyft)

    Tipping: Encouraged

    Typical: $1–$5 or 10–20%

    Why: Drivers are independent contractors who often earn less than minimum wage after expenses.

    Verdict: If the ride was smooth and courteous, a tip is fair and helpful.

    Personal Services (Hair, Nails, Massage, Tattoo, Spa)

    Tipping: Expected

    Typical: 15–25%

    Why: Many of these workers pay chair rental fees or receive commission, making tips a large part of their income.

    Verdict: Tipping is standard, even for salon owners in many places.

    Hospitality (Hotels, Valet, Bellhop, Housekeeping)

    Tipping: Expected for certain roles

    Housekeeping: $2–$5 per day Valet: $2–$5 Bellhop: $1–$2 per bag** Why: Wages vary, but most depend on tips to make their job sustainable. Verdict: Tipping is part of the social contract in U.S. hotels and resorts.

    Fast Food Chains and Self-Service Kiosks

    Tipping: Optional (and controversial)

    Typical: Prompted by digital screens—$1–$3 or %

    Why: Employees are generally paid hourly and do not rely on tips.

    Verdict: Tip if you feel compelled, but this is not a tipping environment by tradition or necessity.

    How to Know if a Worker Depends on Tips

    Look for these clues:

    Wage disclosures: If the job is labeled as a “tipped wage” position, the base pay is often below minimum wage. Job type: Full-service restaurant staff, bartenders, hotel staff, and personal service providers are typically tip-reliant. Local law: Some states (like California, Oregon, Washington) require full minimum wage plus tips. In others, employers can pay subminimum wages. Platform dependence: Gig workers for Uber, DoorDash, or Instacart often depend on your tip as a major portion of their earnings.

    The Problem with All This

    Tipping is no longer about gratitude—it’s about wage replacement.

    Workers in low-paying industries depend on tips to survive. And customers are left guessing who’s being underpaid, who’s being subsidized, and when they’re morally obligated to tip.

    The result? Confusion. Guilt. Tip fatigue.

    What Needs to Change

    At EndTippingCulture.org, we believe:

    Wages should be guaranteed by employers—not subsidized by customers. Pricing should be transparent and fair—with compensation baked in. Tipping should return to being a thank-you—not a lifeline.

    Let’s stop asking “Should I tip?” and start asking, “Why aren’t workers being paid fairly?”

    Join the movement. Support wage reform. End tipping culture.

  • The Rise of Corporate Tipping

    A Timeline of Digital Gratuity Prompts in Big Business

    Over the past decade, tipping in the U.S. has expanded beyond traditional service industries, infiltrating corporate giants like ride-sharing platforms, coffee chains, and fast-food restaurants. This shift has been propelled by digital payment technologies and changing consumer behaviors, leading to what many term “tipflation.” Here’s a chronological overview of how major companies have integrated tipping into their business models:

    2014: Starbucks Introduces Digital Tipping

    In March 2014, Starbucks launched a feature in its iPhone app allowing customers to tip baristas digitally after making a purchase. This move marked one of the first major integrations of tipping into a corporate mobile payment system. 

    2017: Uber Adds In-App Tipping

    Responding to driver feedback and competitive pressure from Lyft, Uber introduced an in-app tipping feature in June 2017. This allowed passengers to tip drivers directly through the app up to 30 days after a trip, aligning Uber with industry standards and addressing longstanding driver concerns. 

    2022: Starbucks Expands Tipping Options

    In late 2022, Starbucks expanded its tipping system to include prompts on credit card readers at checkout. Customers paying with cards were presented with options to tip $1, $2, or a custom amount. This change aimed to increase tip frequency but received mixed reactions from customers, with some finding the prompts awkward or pressured. 

    2023: Fast-Food Chains Implement Tipping Prompts

    By 2023, tipping prompts began appearing in fast-food establishments, particularly at self-service kiosks and digital payment terminals. Chains like McDonald’s and KFC introduced options for customers to add gratuity during the ordering process, a departure from traditional fast-food practices. This shift was facilitated by point-of-sale systems like Square and Toast, which made it easier to integrate tipping into the payment flow. 

    2024: Uber Tests Advance Tipping Feature

    In November 2024, Uber began testing an “advance tip” feature, allowing riders to tip drivers before the ride commenced. This initiative aimed to incentivize drivers and potentially improve service quality. However, it faced criticism for potentially creating a pay-to-play dynamic and was labeled as “unethical” by consumer protection authorities in India. 

    Conclusion

    The integration of tipping into corporate platforms reflects a broader trend of shifting wage responsibilities from employers to consumers. As digital payment systems evolve, the line between fair compensation and consumer obligation continues to blur, prompting ongoing debates about the role of tipping in modern commerce.

  • Are No-Tipping Restaurants the Future?

    In recent years, a growing number of restaurants across the United States have experimented with eliminating tipping in favor of paying their staff higher, more consistent wages. This shift aims to address longstanding issues associated with tipping, such as income instability, wage disparities between front-of-house and back-of-house staff, and the perpetuation of discriminatory practices.

    Case Studies: Successes and Challenges

    Calissa – Water Mill, New York

    Calissa, a Greek restaurant in the Hamptons, transitioned to a no-tipping model during the COVID-19 pandemic. By offering employees a steady hourly wage, the restaurant provided financial stability, allowing staff to plan their finances without relying on fluctuating tips. One server noted that this change made life “so much easier,” eliminating the need to save summer tips to cover winter expenses. 

    Zazie – San Francisco, California

    Zazie, a French bistro in San Francisco, adopted a no-tipping policy and instead raised menu prices to provide employees with fair wages and benefits. This approach aimed to create a more equitable work environment and reduce the income gap between different restaurant roles.

    Union Square Hospitality Group – New York City

    Danny Meyer’s Union Square Hospitality Group made headlines by eliminating tipping across its restaurants, implementing a “Hospitality Included” model. While the initiative aimed to promote wage equity, it faced challenges, including staff turnover and customer resistance to higher menu prices. Eventually, the group reinstated tipping in some establishments. 

    Benefits of No-Tipping Models

    Income Stability: Employees receive predictable wages, reducing financial uncertainty. Wage Equity: Helps bridge the pay gap between front-of-house and back-of-house staff. Improved Work Environment: Reduces the power imbalance between customers and servers, potentially decreasing instances of harassment and discrimination. Simplified Billing: Customers pay the listed price without the need to calculate additional tips.

    Challenges Faced

    Customer Resistance: Some patrons perceive higher menu prices negatively, even if the total cost remains similar after factoring in traditional tips. Staff Retention: In some cases, servers accustomed to earning substantial tips may leave for establishments that maintain traditional tipping practices. Operational Adjustments: Restaurants must carefully manage increased labor costs and ensure that price adjustments align with customer expectations.

    Conclusion

    While the no-tipping model presents an opportunity to create a more equitable and stable environment for restaurant workers, its success depends on various factors, including customer acceptance and effective implementation strategies. As the industry continues to evolve, these experiments provide valuable insights into alternative compensation structures that prioritize fairness and sustainability.

  • Why Pre-Set Tip Screens Are Making People Angry

    Walk into almost any coffee shop, takeout counter, or food truck today and you’ll notice a familiar moment: the digital payment screen flips around, presenting you with tipping options—15%, 20%, 25%—often before you’ve received any service at all.

    What used to be a moment of generosity has turned into a moment of pressure.

    These pre-set tip screens, built into point-of-sale systems like Square and Toast, are now a flashpoint in America’s growing dissatisfaction with tipping culture. And for many customers, the frustration is real—and growing.

    From Gratitude to Guilt

    Tipping has historically been a way to reward excellent service. But with tip prompts showing up in settings with little or no service—think grab-and-go coffee or online order pickups—many people feel coerced into tipping by default, not out of appreciation, but out of guilt.

    Pre-set screens:

    Often pop up before service is rendered Use high default percentages (usually 20–25%) Hide or make it harder to find the “No Tip” option Display the screen in full view of the worker and surrounding customers

    It’s not just a transaction—it’s a social test.

    The Rise of ‘Tipflation’

    This growing pressure has led to what many now call “tipflation”—the expansion of tipping to more places at higher percentages. Once limited to restaurants and bars, tipping is now expected for everything from smoothies to self-service checkouts.

    According to a 2023 Pew Research survey:

    72% of Americans say tipping is expected in more places than five years ago Only 34% find it easy to know when and how much to tip

    Rather than simplifying gratuity, these digital prompts have added confusion and stress.

    Why It Feels Manipulative

    Payment technology companies and business owners defend these screens as “convenient” or “transparent,” but critics say they’re manipulative by design.

    Here’s how:

    Default tip percentages nudge customers toward over-tipping Design tactics (like large colorful buttons for high tips) influence behavior Real-time visibility pressures people to tip even when it doesn’t feel warranted

    Many customers feel trapped in the moment, fearing they’ll look cheap, rude, or ungrateful if they choose “No Tip”—even for transactions that never involved human service.

    Who Actually Benefits?

    You might think that tips always go straight to workers, but that’s not always the case.

    In some businesses:

    Tips are pooled and divided among staff Management may take a portion or count tips toward wage requirements Non-tipped workers (like kitchen staff or cashiers) may see none of it

    The result: customers feel guilted into tipping more, while workers may still struggle with low, unpredictable pay.

    What Customers Are Saying

    Social media is filled with posts and memes poking fun at tip prompts for self-checkouts, vending machines, and digital kiosks. But beneath the jokes lies real frustration.

    One Reddit user wrote:

    “I went to a bakery, grabbed a pre-packaged cookie, paid at a kiosk—and the screen asked me to tip. Tip who? The cookie?”

    A 2024 Bankrate survey found that 59% of Americans have a negative view of tipping culture, and many blame technology for fueling the problem.

    A Symptom of a Bigger Problem

    Pre-set tip screens aren’t just annoying—they’re a symptom of a deeper issue: a labor system where workers don’t earn a living wage, and employers rely on customer guilt to close the gap.

    If workers were paid fairly:

    Tipping wouldn’t be a moral dilemma Customers wouldn’t feel manipulated Businesses wouldn’t need to use psychology to extract extra income

    The Solution Isn’t to Tip More—It’s to Change the System

    At EndTippingCulture.org, we believe in:

    Fair, transparent wages included in prices Eliminating the subminimum wage for tipped workers Ending the guilt trip at the checkout screen

    Pre-set tip prompts shouldn’t replace real compensation.

    What You Can Do

    Don’t feel pressured: It’s okay to decline tipping in low- or no-service settings. Support businesses that pay fair wages and don’t use manipulative screens. Spread awareness: Share this article. Start conversations. Challenge assumptions.

    Let’s create a culture where workers are valued—and paid—without relying on digital guilt.

    Join the movement at EndTippingCulture.org

  • Should You Tip for Takeout, Coffee, or Self-Checkout?

    In recent years, tipping has crept far beyond the traditional restaurant table. Now, you’re prompted to tip when grabbing a coffee, picking up takeout, or even using a self-checkout kiosk. The pressure is subtle but real: a smiling cashier hands you a tablet that instantly flips around with suggested tip amounts—15%, 20%, even 25%—before you’ve even taken a sip.

    But should you be tipping in these situations? And more importantly, what does it say about our culture that we’re even asking?

    The Expansion of Tipping Culture

    Traditionally, tipping in the U.S. was tied to full-service dining. A server delivered your food, refilled your drinks, and checked in throughout the meal. In those cases, a 15–20% tip felt logical—especially since servers often earned just $2.13/hour in base pay due to outdated labor laws.

    But now, you’re asked to tip:

    For takeout, even when you place and retrieve the order yourself At coffee shops, even for simple drink pickups At self-checkouts, where there’s little to no human interaction

    This trend is part of what many now call “tipflation”—the rising pressure to tip in more places and at higher percentages than ever before.

    Who’s Actually Benefiting?

    It’s easy to think, “Well, it’s just a few extra dollars—it goes to the workers, right?” But in many cases, tipping is being used as a crutch by businesses to avoid paying their staff a fair, living wage.

    The reality is:

    Baristas, cashiers, and takeout workers may not even be tipped employees legally—meaning they should be earning at least minimum wage without tips. Suggested tip screens often appear before service, creating awkward pressure on customers and giving no reflection of quality. In some businesses, tips are pooled or partially retained by owners, creating lack of transparency about where your money actually goes.

    The Social Pressure to Tip

    Tipping in these casual, low-contact settings has become a social minefield. If you decline to tip, are you cheap? Rude? If you do tip, are you reinforcing a broken system?

    This pressure is especially intense when:

    You’re face-to-face with the employee watching the screen Other customers are waiting behind you The only visible buttons are for 20%, 25%, and “Other”

    Many customers now report feeling guilty or coerced into tipping—hardly the generous, voluntary gesture it’s supposed to be.

    What Needs to Change

    At EndTippingCulture.org, we don’t blame workers or even customers for this awkward mess. We blame a system that:

    Underpays workers Offloads wage responsibility to the public Uses tech to enforce social compliance

    Instead of expanding tipping into every corner of the economy, we believe in:

    Fair wages included in the price Transparency in business costs and employee compensation Removing guilt from the customer experience

    So, Should You Tip?

    The honest answer is: You shouldn’t have to.

    In an ideal system, takeout staff, baristas, and retail workers would be paid enough to live without relying on tips. Until then, it’s up to you whether to tip—but it’s also your right to question why you’re being asked.

    Join the movement to End Tipping Culture.